The Impostor Syndrome Files

Shifting from Anger to Love

January 02, 2024 Kim Meninger Season 5 Episode 198
The Impostor Syndrome Files
Shifting from Anger to Love
Show Notes

In this episode of the Impostor Syndrome Files, we talk about leveraging the power of love languages to create long-lasting change. My guest this week, Paul Zolman, grew up in a family of abuse where he learned to be angry. This anger followed him into adulthood until he decided he no longer wanted to live this way. Here Paul shares the approach he took to change his behavior, which ultimately led to a shift from anger to love. 

About My Guest
Paul Zolman is the author of Love is God. In His wisdom, He placed us in a variety of circumstances that require us to find our way back to His pure love. So, what qualifies Paul Zolman to speak about love? His childhood experience of the opposite of love. From that austere beginning, and the distaste it formed inside him, he searched for and eventually created a method that transformed his life from anger to loving everyone. Growing up in a family of abuse, physical touch became his preferred love style, only because of the regularity. He could almost count on it. It was consistent. He came to think that was the way to express love. But deep inside, he knew that was a twisted belief. He wanted a better life for himself, which is why he created a paradigm shift that works. In this book, you’ll find what helped Paul Zolman move from a childhood boot camp of abuse to being a person who loves everyone and can find good about anyone in any circumstance. This is truly the role of love.

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Connect with Paul:
Website: www.roleoflove.com
Role Of Love Dice (@roleoflovedice) • Instagram photos and videos
Paul Zolman | Author (@paul_zolman) • Instagram photos and videos
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/paul.zolman.7/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulzolman/
Role of Love Dice (@roleoflovedice) / X (twitter.com)

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